double-edged sword

Humans are relational beings, hard-wired for community and live better. Inevitably life is gonna hand us some situations, leaving us helpless. Asking for help can be seen daunting, and you always tend to turn to someone you know and you trust when you need some opinions or guidances. If ur goal is simply to garner support for a task that you're unable to do it on ur own, you will find it very much easier to look for a complete stranger for help or..just pay for a professional to assist you. whatever :)

But sometimes, you just wanna get some words from someone you're comfortable with, the someone that you trust because you know he wont hurt you. It is much more easier to express what's your feeling. and you smile not because you wanna avoid awkwardness but truly from ur heart. It makes me feeling vulnerable and dependency is growing. :)