like-ability factor

I am always amazed by how ppl talking. I find that its always a much better mode to add value in someone's life through a conversation than just being nice to him/her. Its through the style in the conversation. I'd a short conversation with a young lecturer in my uni while I was waiting to meet up with my supervisor last afternoon. It gives me a huge impression for the lecturer just within the 5 min conversation.

I like ppl adding value in the conversation. It fits well with the personality. It shows the confidence and proficiency of language. I think he is one of the best Nanotechnology lecturer though he has never taught me before.

There are many ways to add value in a conversation. You can be the wise person who inspires others. You can be a funny person who gives a humorous spin to everything and gets everyone laughing. You can be the good person who reassures the needed persons with cheesy compliments or shallow encouragements. You can be a knowledgeable person who is always charming, well, i mean with good general knowledge but not just being a photocopy machine of text book.