Friday, January 28, 2011

Confidence is one of the most attractive traits. I am always attracted by ppl with confidence. Its like a transformation of a somewhat ordinary man to a very sexy performer once he/she has confidence.

Of course there's a fine line btw confidence and arrogance. As attractive as I find confidence, I find arrogance equally unattractive. What's the diff? An arrogant person will act though he is better than others. He may gossip or put others down in order to elevate his own status. He may spend most of his time telling you all about this accomplishments w/o interest in urs. Arrogance may seem like confidence BUT my belief is that its a form of insecurity. Arrogant ppl need to prove their worth by putting others down or by talking about themselves. Confident ppl feel good enough about themselves that they dont need validation from others.

Being well informed is the best way to build self confidence. Education, perhaps its the greatest gift parents can give to their child. Its an asset that multiplies in value as the years go by, standing us in good stead when life throws the unexpected. But I think education is not just about going to school or college and piling up the degrees behind our name. Its the learning process which augments our knowledge and provides us with ENHANCED SKILL, ACUMEN and WISDOM.

To me, i think the best part of being well informed is that it allows us to communicate intelligently. Learning and knowledge allow us to put forth our ideas more eloquently and with greater conviction. We're sure of what we wanna say and how to say it, This makes our msg more powerful and ensures that it has the intended effect. I am pretty enjoying talking with more seasoned ppl. Their advices and point of views are sharp. I love it. Though it hurts sometimes :P

CNY fever is hotting up! Enjoy the moments with ur loved one and lastly, enjoy the studying for final exams for all my uni-mates :D

ps. I am so in love with Josh Groban songs !! Beautiful lyrics from every song !

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Friday, January 28, 2011

Confidence is one of the most attractive traits. I am always attracted by ppl with confidence. Its like a transformation of a somewhat ordinary man to a very sexy performer once he/she has confidence.

Of course there's a fine line btw confidence and arrogance. As attractive as I find confidence, I find arrogance equally unattractive. What's the diff? An arrogant person will act though he is better than others. He may gossip or put others down in order to elevate his own status. He may spend most of his time telling you all about this accomplishments w/o interest in urs. Arrogance may seem like confidence BUT my belief is that its a form of insecurity. Arrogant ppl need to prove their worth by putting others down or by talking about themselves. Confident ppl feel good enough about themselves that they dont need validation from others.

Being well informed is the best way to build self confidence. Education, perhaps its the greatest gift parents can give to their child. Its an asset that multiplies in value as the years go by, standing us in good stead when life throws the unexpected. But I think education is not just about going to school or college and piling up the degrees behind our name. Its the learning process which augments our knowledge and provides us with ENHANCED SKILL, ACUMEN and WISDOM.

To me, i think the best part of being well informed is that it allows us to communicate intelligently. Learning and knowledge allow us to put forth our ideas more eloquently and with greater conviction. We're sure of what we wanna say and how to say it, This makes our msg more powerful and ensures that it has the intended effect. I am pretty enjoying talking with more seasoned ppl. Their advices and point of views are sharp. I love it. Though it hurts sometimes :P

CNY fever is hotting up! Enjoy the moments with ur loved one and lastly, enjoy the studying for final exams for all my uni-mates :D

ps. I am so in love with Josh Groban songs !! Beautiful lyrics from every song !

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