as children many of us hyped the statement : " Sticks and stones may break my bones..but words will never hurt me. " Clearly, it doesn't take long to realize the words have far more weight than we want to realize.. To me, they influence thoughts, feelings, and states of mind.

even little words often have big meaning :) because i believe, the simplest little words, which we take for granted, have the power to hurt or heal, to inspire or discourage, to help or to hinder. I used to be shy to speak out how I feel. But honey has changed my mind. He shows me how words of gratitude make the heart sing.

So, little words for my honey Mikey

I love you and its all about you :)

little words for my family

Thank you and I appreciate !

and of course, little words for my friends

You can do it !

ps. happy chinese new year everyone ~

Dont lose hope

you never know what tomorrow will bring

No wonder listening is an undervalued art. Research shows that we speak at a rate much faster than the capacity we have in listening per minute. So what are we actually doing with the extra space in our mind when someone else is talking? Are we really listening ? Am I listening ? Its not a fresh hot issue that I'd found myself drifting from listening to someone. In another precise word. Dreaming.

I understand the bereft feeling when someone is trying to share the most inner thought and feeling with me and not getting my full attention. I have no intention in doing that. I would have whispered my apology in ur ear :) I am sorry. and I know listening is essential for a fulfilling relationship.Just like how you'd always listened to me :) and I want our connection to deepen :)

I am writing this to say how sorry I am and I promise I'll change :)

Thanks for caring me like no one else I know. I love the way I feel in ur arms. I can explain every way that I love you because that's in possible. But I can say I love you because you are you. Just the way you are..:)

Happy 2012 everyone~ Its a wonderful magic carpet ride experiencing the whirlwind of ups and downs throughout the year. Final Year Project. Convocation. My first job. Best friend leaving. Little cute Felix to join our Teoh family :) Its like a drastic transition in a short one year.

Family, boyfie, and friends complete my fabulous 2011 :)

and I am determined for a better yeanfern in this upcoming 2012.

anyway its the time of year when goals are made and should never being abandoned a few weeks later lol. Not achieving what you set out to do means you will yet again fail to move toward the life you desire which leads to nth but regret rightttt? We are equipped. and now its time to fly. Just like a G6. Inertia can be difficult to overcome. but sth we may overlook is the influence from ppl around us.

I am greedy. I want work-life balance. Often what we believe we want is not what we want at all. New year resolution? It doesn't matter whether you set goals or not. as long as you're doing sth that makes you COME ALIVE~ I literally spend some time to think what I actually want, staying present, here and now. and let any and all thoughts pass. Dont give them meaning, and dont add to them. because I believe it is from this blank, calm state that we can begin to look at what has gone well last year, and what hasn't.

Lastly, when the going get tough, put on ur high heels and just walk ! ♥